my name is james, and that's all you need to know.  i am a single man living in costa mesa california, i am currently looking.

i am not a whore, so don't ask me for pictures. the only way you can see me naked is if you want to be with me forever.  i am not some easy little slut you can just sweet talk.  i  want a man, but i don't want no self absorbed sex crazed freak. and if y ou are conceited, dont even bother to talk to me.   i hate those people.

if you want to get to know me, or is interested in me... give me a reason why.  i'm tired of putting my heart on the line and having it handed to me allblack and blue.