Probably not looking for a random fuck, would like to meet the right guy for a long term thing.  That being said, i haven't found it yet, so I may just need to get laid, I guess you just have to ask.  Sexually I can get into anything from vanilla to seriously kinky, versatile but to me it depends on our dynamic more than anything.  I love redhead / blond guys, and have a soft spot for the real manly redneck type white guys, and am super turned on by classic white jock straps. none of the guys i have had serious relationships with have fit my physical ideal, i was into them because of who they were. 
In a way I'm not sure why I come on here,  I find it very difficult to communicate in written form, or make a connection with someone via text.  Also I'm kinda a chicken.
Typically I'm very outgoing and social.  The kind of person that can walk into a room full of strangers and walk out knowing everyone without quite knowing how. 
I also find it hard to describe myself.  I feel like I'm full of contradictions.  A total country boy (closet red neck, god I miss my truck), yet also loves the city.  I went to culinary school out west, yet no longer cooking professionally.  I'm into all things farm, food, wine, and beverage.  Currently in the wine industry (not local) and co own a local seasonal juice company.  (sounds like I'm a baller but no, its a labor of love)
My interest are very diverse so here's a random list. 
Music is huge for me, from indie electro trash to gay ass disco to bluegrass to funk to dub reggae to metal, depends on my mood.  I love art, fashion, and design occasionally get the inspiration to make things myself.  Really I love making things, be that art, food, money, farming, whatever.  I'm a bit of a social butterfly, some may say party child.  Sometimes I feel like my social circle is too big to manage and people get mad at me for neglecting them. Some times I feel like people have a token gay friend because its like having a free shrink.  As social as I am I also prize my personal space and alone time. I love to go out and party, I enjoy even more throwing parties.  I love the art of the party: I get a whole lot of satisfaction by creating the time and space for everyone to have a really good fucking time.  Im happy if there happy.  I love the outdoors.  I'm super not religious, the only reason I believe in a god is from seeing its face manafest in nature.  I dig hiking camping fishing rock climbing spelunking.  I dig the satisfaction I get from farm work and growing things.  I have a strong geeky intellectual streak.  I read a lot, the post every morning.  I stay up on politics and world events.  Into science, especially emerging and fringe science.  Into philosophy and learning about various religious traditions and esoteric occultism  Just beginning to get back into electronic music production.