Just out seeing what i might find, im looking for a real thing, im not into hookin up or random acts of casual encounters. D/D free and hope for the same.  Into agressive guys that know how to take care of the one they care about, and be smart enough to let the one take care of them from time to time. Submissive, but not a push over, by submissive im not talking about bondage or that stuff, im talking about being with a guy that is a guy. Not into fems at all. on the other hand, not really into the big ole bears thing, sorry, just looking for a guy like myself, laid back and likes to do things that dont involve the gay bars all the time. theres plenty of other stuff to do!  let me know if we have something in common and well see where it leads.